Category: boomer life
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A Proud Cat Lady Confesses
I grew up a cat girl. I don’t remember NOT having a cat roam around my house. Cats birthed kittens and my family often kept one or two of the offspring. Our cats ran free outside, never confined indoors. Black was the most prevalent color, Midnight an example of an appropriate name for one of…
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Musings on the Transformations Around Me
Like life, my neighborhood changes over time. Homes transfer ownership. New people spend weeks and sometimes months renovating, redecorating, refurbishing. Or they tear down a fine old home – one that needs updating, but has a warmness and positive vibe not easily duplicated – and build a larger building, a three or four-story house that…
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Musings on Becoming Irrelevant
My Florida family rented a home in my resort community for two weeks. Teenagers now, the grandkids’ are immersed in their generational lifestyle. Friends rule. Family time is enjoyed until teen goings-on beckon. Their parents’ lifestyle is not a lot different than their kids. With friends who live in the Northeast, a shore vacation offers…
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Fitness, Friends, Ghosting and more from the Best of Boomers
My Florida family traded the mid-summer oppressive heat and humidity of their home state for two weeks at the Jersey shore. This year they decided not to squeeze into my house – spacious enough for hub and me, but far from roomy for a family of five, including three teenagers, and visiting friends. They rented…
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Why is Simple Sometimes Not So Simple?
Is it me? Am I so techno-mechanical dumb that a step-by-step simple task turns out to be, for me, not so simple? At times an item supposedly user-friendly and easy to assemble morphs into an undertaking difficult to complete or never accomplished. How many gray hairs and sparse spots exist on my head because I…
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We All Scream for ICE CREAM!
Maybe not scream, but verbally make our desire known. Forcefully. And we desire ice cream often. ‘We,’ meaning a lot of us, although not all of us. I realize there are a few souls out there who are not ice cream fans. All I can say is…I’m sorry. Ice cream enthusiasts have their favorites –…
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In Pursuit of a Bagel
One of the best bagel stores in the world is located in my town. Open seven days a week all year, the place is a community fixture and go-to hotspot for coffee, bagel sandwiches, and fresh bagels to take home and load with cream cheese and smoked fish, chicken, tuna, or egg salads, or whatever…
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This Week I Aged Another Year
A day dawned this week when I officially became a year older. At my age it is not a big event to close the chapter on one year and begin a new one, especially when the new year does not mark a milestone. A number ending in a 0 or 5 designates a benchmark year,…
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Boomers on a new sport, the blessings of sons, summer safety, and more
Summer has arrived in my piece of paradise, and I am celebrating by playing hooky, avoiding chores and other tedious to-dos in favor of a few hours of backyard bliss. Our world is in turmoil and I need to decompress. I garden, read, and complete New York Times puzzles, a challenge in a positive way. If a…
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Unconnected and Unhinged, sort of
Why am I so attached to technology? Specifically my TV, computer, internet, and cellphone. I am perfectly able to take care of myself without these support tools. I can hold a physical, printed book in my hand and read. I can cook, garden, exercise, and sit on my porch and watch the world go by,…